{"id":1351,"date":"2009-08-14T15:36:06","date_gmt":"2009-08-14T13:36:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zoeyclark.wordpress.com\/?p=116"},"modified":"2018-10-29T15:28:32","modified_gmt":"2018-10-29T13:28:32","slug":"allure-of-the-older-guy-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pinartarhan.com\/blog\/allure-of-the-older-guy-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Gerard Butler, Richard Gere and Jeffrey Dean Morgan: Allure of the Older Guy"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Kissing is a man’s business” – Gerry\u00a0\u00a0 (P.S. I love you<\/a>, character portrayed by Gerard Butler)<\/p>\n

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P.S. I love you, Gerard Butler and Hillary Swank. A wonderfully funny and sad love story.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Oh my God, how true. Having kissed men and boys, trust me; I know the difference. Boys think they know they<\/p>\n

are getting it right and have no concern whether they are pleasing you or not.<\/p>\n

Men on the other hand, know that the more you are satisfied, the harder you will work at satisfying them-<\/p>\n

it is a win-win situation. It goes for kissing and everything else.<\/p>\n

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P.S. I should know. I did date a guy 12 years older than me. Was so much fun…<\/p>\n

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Gerard Butler and Hillary Swank in P.S. I love you, right before the "most perfect first kiss". <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

When I heard Gerard Butler<\/a>‘s character utter the sentence quoted, I was thinking “Hell, you are so right!!!”.<\/p>\n

*** Gerard Butler:<\/strong> Oh, Gerard <\/a>was born in 1969- which makes him a good 15 years older than me.<\/p>\n

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Gerard, 300 times.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

And add the sweetness and romantic qualities of his character, I would embrace that difference. And in the movie, Hillary Swank<\/a>‘ s Holly meets Gerry when she is college and he is a musician. I guess we are supposed to assume a 10 year difference or something like that.\u00a0 Whatever. Bring it on!<\/p>\n

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P.S. I love you photoshoot. Damn, I want Swank's career.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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***Richard Gere<\/strong><\/p>\n

Oh well. The name speaks for itself, doesn’t it? Pretty Woman<\/a> might be fun but the story of a businessman + a hooker = fairy tale??\u00a0 C’mon.\u00a0 Seriously.\u00a0 And I don’t really like his earlier stuff- I find them boring and him looking too neat. But when his hair is scruffy, he is wearing his jeans and just a shirt, he is passionate and a little rebellious, all I can say is Hallelujah!!!<\/p>\n

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Richard, earlier phases<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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Let’s see more with 3 examples.<\/p>\n

*Mr. Jones: <\/a>The lovely manic-depressive patient. 1993. Richard is 44 years old. Barely looking to be in his mid 30s. Longish hair. Impulsive attitude. No wonder his doctor falls in love with him.<\/p>\n

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Richard Gere and Lena Olin in Mr. Jones.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

*Sommersby: <\/a>Jack Sommersby comes home 6 years after the war. Right after Jodie Foster shaves the beard, we have an amazing-looking man, who is fun,loyal and loving. Oh boy. Who cares if the guy is 20 years older??? 30??\u00a0 I want him. (Gere, that is) right here, right now basically.<\/p>\n

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* Nights in Rodanthe:<\/strong> <\/a>2008. Richard is 59. His character has fathered a son played by James Franco. Who do you want? Richard’s character Paul!! He has made mistakes and he is trying to amend them. He meets Diane Lane’s Adrienne. 4 intense days. Totally honest and open. Total attraction and emotional involvement.\u00a0 I fell in love with Jack.<\/p>\n

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Nights In Rodanthe starring Richard Gere and Diane Lane. James Franco has a small but important role as Richard's son.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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*** Jeffrey Dean Morgan<\/strong>. 43. Ever since I saw him in Grey’s Anatomy<\/a>, I want this guy.<\/p>\n

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Whatever that comes my way really. One night stand, a serious make-out session, marriage, bed buddies…Oh,yes! I was seduced badly. He barely looks 35 and I like a guy who is older and looks younger than he really is. I guess we have already established that. In Grey’s, he was playing a patient who needed a heart transplant. He charmed Doctor Izzie Stevens (Katherine Heigl) with his good nature, funny self and good looks.<\/p>\n

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Grey's Anatomy<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

She cared for him so much she risked her career to save him. My relationship with the show is limited with Jeffrey’s appearances as Denny Duquette.<\/a><\/p>\n

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Then came P.S. I love you<\/a>. Oh when Gerry sends his wife to Ireland with his letters, he is a musician she runs across at a bar. All those good looks and the sexiness of vocals and guitar. Oh,wow!!!<\/p>\n

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Jeffrey Dean, playing the guitar. He had to learn in a week.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Below;\u00a0 The Accidental Husband : Silly movie but Jeffrey was there and it was enjoyable. Oh, he played a fire-fighter.<\/p>\n

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Jeffrey Dean Morgan and Uma Thurman in The Accidental Husband. The adversary is Colin Firth. The movie isn't great but I sure love the cast.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

If you are thinking he only plays the good guy, please see the Watchmen<\/a>. He is supposedly a superhero but he is more like a psycho in there. He is as good as a villain.<\/p>\n

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Jeffrey as the Comedian<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
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