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Inspiration to get your ass in gear part 2 feat. Bon Jovi’s It’s My Life, Keep The Faith and Have a Nice Day

Posted on October 27, 2009 Written by ripitup

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Well, my previous post is about how songs can actually get you in the mood not to give in your dreams and it gives Poison’s Cry Tough as an example. The song is fast, hopeful and it  just tells you not to give up. The fact that the band came from nowhere and went to the top of the charts through persistence and hard work  makes the lyrics credible.

You may not know Poison. But I’m pretty sure you have heard of  Bon Jovi. Don’t dismiss them because rock isn’t your thing or because their sound is just too “soft” for you. They have songs in a lot of genres (hard rock, classic rock, pop-rock, country rock, glam rock…), and they have written songs about almost all aspects of life. Don’t think about the ballads. Please, we are not going to talk about “Always” here. But, if you are thinking of  the chorus from their hit song “It’s my life”, great! You are exactly where I need you to be. The whole song is about not giving up and standing your ground. In fact, this song is only one example from the band. They are huge on songs that encourage you to work on your dreams.

Here is a part of  “It’s my life“:

It’s my life  – And it’s now or never
I ain’t gonna live forever , I just want to live while I’m alive
(It’s my life)
My heart is like an open highway – Like Frankie said
I did it my way, I just want to live while I’m alive ,’Cause it’s my life

Better stand tall when they’re calling you out
Don’t bend, don’t break, baby, don’t back down

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cOfaYFIHt1g&feature=fvst  this is for the song’s video.

They might have sold over 100,000,000 records (yes, it is the official number) but it’s not like success fell on their laps. Frontman Jon Bon Jovi worked at odd jobs, he even sold shoes. (I am saying “even” – if you remember the old sitcom Married with Children, the shoe selling thing might put a smile on your face.) He cleaned the floors on a record studio and didn’t get paid for it. Instead he just recorded his demos. One of the demos got him a record deal and a band. But what made Bon Jovi huge is actually another song that tells you to keep hanging on no matter what: Living on a Prayer. This is the video of the song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUSDS9pkA2Y&feature=fvst

Oh and the chorus goes something like this:

Whooah, were half way there
Livin on a prayer
Take my hand and well make it – I swear
Livin on a prayer

 

Not to mention, they have written Keep The Faith (it tells you to “keep the faith: you know youre gonna live thru the rain” ) and Have a Nice Day , whose chorus goes:

Ohhh, if there’s one thing I hang onto,
That gets me through the night.
I ain’t gonna do what I don’t want to,
I’m gonna live my life.
Shining like a diamond, rolling with the dice,
Standing on the ledge, I show the wind how to fly.
When the world gets in my face,
I say, Have A Nice Day.
Have A Nice Day

link to Keep the Faith: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6U5gJZh5u2Y&feature=fvst

link to Have a Nice Day: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UheKmPY1mNw&feature=fvst

ENJOY!

 

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Filed Under: Dreams and Careers Tagged With: Bon Jovi, Cry Tough, glam-rock, Have a nice day, how to keep the motivation alive, it's my life, Jon Bon Jovi, keep the faith, Living on prayer, making dreams come true, Married with Children, Poison, Rock n' Roll (and Music in general)

Inspiration to get your ass in gear – when you are working to reach your dreams

Posted on October 27, 2009 Written by ripitup

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Did that sound rude? I am just trying to be helpful, and trust me I do whatever I can to get my own ass in gear. What really motivates me is music. Whatever your dreams are, I think the right songs can really help. But I am talking about fast, energetic songs that will make you want to move, make you want to take action. So it is great if you like music, regardless of the kind. But wanting to dance isn’t enough. So if you want your own life-coaching in songs, stick to rock. No, I’m serious. And with rock, let’s get specific. If you are looking to get depressed, Radiohead is lovely. Grunge music can also help you to get lost in the misery of it all. Hell, metal is great for head-banging and letting go of your anger. But, if you -like me- pay attention to they lyrics, rock music (mostly glam rock, hard- rock and classic rock) is a great way to give you the push you need. Let me give some examples:

–  Band: Poison,  Song: Cry tough

Its lyrics talk about about dreams;m about how persistent you have to be in order to reach them. Now, before I give the lyrics and the link to the video for the song, here’s why you should take this song seriously (and why it might be hard for you to do it) : Poison is rock band that made it big in the 80s. And by big, I mean they became one of the biggest-selling rock bands in the world.  Your dream probably has got nothing to do with making it big as a band. But a dream is a dream and becoming a widely known, top-selling band is not a piece of cake. The band members have tons of cash, popularity, chicks, millions of fans and freedom, but they didn’t start out that way. There was a time they actually had to crash at a launderette because they couldn’t afford rent. But they worked their butts off and never gave up. Now they are just enjoying the upside of the ride. Cry Tough is one of my favorite motivators. It’s not slow and definitely not hard- meaning you can take the sound even if you are not a rock fan. The catch? Just brace yourself for some awful 80s fashion. Hell, I like 80s rock but this video might be too much even for me. But remember: they might look funny, but they made it. Millions love their work.  20 years later, they are still together and still loved.

Lyrics:

Remember the nights we sat  and talked about all our dreams
Well little did we know then they were more distant than they seemed
Well I knew it, you knew it too
The things we’d go through, we knew the things we had to do
to make it, baby.

You gotta cry tough out on the streets
To make your dreams happen
You gotta cry out, out to the world
To make them all come true.

Life ain’t no easy ride, at least that’s what I am told
Sometimes the rainbow baby, is better than the pot of gold
You’ve got to stick it out, whether you’re wrong or right
And you can’t give in without a fight, to make it baby

for the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjB65dUu_ws

 

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Poison, now. They make even harder, faster rock at their 40s.

 

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Filed Under: Dreams and Careers Tagged With: 80s rock, Cry Tough, Cry Tough lyrics, glam-rock, how to keep the motivation alive, making dreams come true, Poison

The Bizarre Business Interview Techniques

Posted on October 26, 2009 Written by ripitup

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Have you ever been to an interview where it felt like your interviewer was reading questions from a how-to book? Some book about how to strategically corner the candidates and make them sweat? Some might have gotten more professional but still the employers are forgetting one significant fact: THE CANDIDATES MIGHT QUITE POSSIBLY HAVE SEEN THOSE BOOKS TOO! What I mean is, sometimes the interviewers are so lost in playing  the good cop/bad cop game or using the oh- so- cliché “treat them mean, keep them keen” strategy that they forget we can play along too.

Some might try to push your buttons so hard to test your endurance. It’s a tough industry,right? If you can’t take 30 minutes of stress, what use are you to them? But come on, they should not underestimate the intelligence of the audience. Most of the time, you can smell the tactics from a mile away and you choose one of the two paths: 1)You play along and prove you have balls of steel (metaphorically speaking of course) or 2) Judging by the technique that so lacks originality, you decide that you don’t want to work for them anyway. Of course there are some who can get caught off guard, which is exactly why these games still exist. But seriously, they are not as efficient or scary as they are believed to be. Let’s take a look at these questions taken from real life cases.

The interviewers are two career women, both partners of the law firm, interviewing a female lawyer intern to-be. One of the questions asks the girl where she sees herself 5 years from now. Easy question. Easy to come up with a smart, promising answer. But then this question comes:

– “What if you decide you want to have babies and quit the practice? or you want to cut back hours? What then?”

Now, this question is stupid for one simple reason. The candidate will lie. If she doesn’t want babies, she will say so. Even if she is thinking about it, she will say no. No woman in her right mind will admit to considering having babies in the 5 years to come. They want to job and they want it now. It’s not even certain they will (want to) stay in that firm for that long anyway. So they will lie. So if the interviewer can’t anticipate the lie, they should really not be interviewing at all. If they can and they should be able to guess the answer, they should just not ask. Either way, it is a waste of time for both parties.

This one is priceless. It happened to me. The co-founder of a small PR company wanted me to pledge my loyalty to the firm. She wanted me to assure her that I was to stay with the company for a long time. Now this question is hilarious for two reasons: For one, obviously I can’t know how long I want to stay at a company I haven’t even started to work for yet. And two, this woman used to work for another company but she left after 2 years to start her own. So, she didn’t stick at one place and she’s expecting me to?

If you have stuff to add, please do. We might fee frustrated at the time of the interview, but afterwards it just turns into a funny anecdote we love to laugh at.

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Filed Under: Dreams and Careers Tagged With: Bizarre Business Interview Questions, Interview Techniques

The Power Play Between The Potential Employer and The Employee

Posted on October 26, 2009 Written by ripitup

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PART 1:  THE FRUSTRATING MULTI STAGE TESTS

I have been through at least a dozen interviews and listened to all my friends interview horror tales. Just yesterday, a friend of mine was telling me about how she left her office for an hour to be able to get to an interview for a company. She hates her current job and she tries to get as many interviews as possible, though it gets tricky to find the time to leave the office.

She was expecting a one-on-one traditional interview, dressed for the part and feeling all confident. She had knowledge and probably more enthusiasm than all the other candidates combined. So she was really taken aback when the Human Resources Rep. announced that she was ready to distribute the test to all the waiting candidates. My friend was more than taken aback, since the woman hadn’t let her know about this “little test”. Moreover she seemed to have informed all others. Now she had to translate 5 medical articles. The test duration was three hours yet there was no way she could be away from the office that long so she did her best for a while and then fled the scene. So apparently the actual interview will take place for the people who score desirable test results. Oh, I think it is best that I mention she wasn’t applying for a interpreter job.

All the big corporations seem to have made a habit to put candidates through a set of tests that take place through a period of weeks and each test takes hours. Well, if you are really, really willing to get the job, you might think that the time & effort you invest in the tests and if you are lucky, the interviews are a small price to pay. But then again, who in his/her right mind applies to only one corporation/company at this ridiculously fragile state of the economy and the fiercely competitive job market? So you apply to all the firms that fit your criteria: the ones that you can possibly commute to, the ones that pay reasonable salaries and/or that are remotely relevant to your education and/or to the career path you want to follow. So imagine applying to an average of 20 jobs, and that 90% puts you through those stages of exhausting tests and then don’t usually bother to call you back with some feedback.

I can see how smart an idea these tests/interviews are for the employer who wants to make sure only the best candidates are hired. But what about the potential employees whose time spent isn’t taken into consideration at all? The problem with these interviews are that they are the brainchild of executives/human resources people who have most probably forgotten what it is like to be hanging on the phone, hoping for a positive reply, or at least a heads up on the situation so they can finally move on.

Imagine how terrible it would be to actually pass the test but after getting hired, you realize that the work environment and the organizational culture are nothing like what you imagined they would be. Of course it is a worst-case scenario, but unfortunately it happens more often than not. As the unemployment rates go up, the employer gets the upper hand. Job applicants get more and more desperate, depressed even so they tend to cross-fingers and settle for what they can get, rather than question and challenge the system. Which brings us to the second part:

PART 2: AN INTERVIEW IS A  TWO-WAY STREET

Another friend of mine applied to 20 jobs before he got his current job, and only two of them provided a response. One was negative and the other asked for an interview. The interview ran smoothly and after the second one went well also, it was time to negotiate the conditions. Of course the concept of negotiation was what went through my friend’s mind. When his then interviewer told him about all the perks and conditions, he expected my friend to start working the next day. Instead my friend asked for some time to think about. Yes, he needed the paycheck but he also needed to think it over. He was going to invest at least 10 hours everyday to this job and he had to decide if the trade-off was going to be worth it. He eventually said yes. But the funny thing is what his boss recently confessed to him about that third interview. He said that he never even thought about his interviewee may not jump at the offer; that the interview actually had two sides. My friend was also evaluating if the job and the employer was worth his time and future work.

It is funny when you think about it. People who are in the hiring position rarely even consider that you may not like to work for them. As far as they are concerned, there’s plenty of fish in the sea and if you are not pleased with the offer, they know hundreds of people who will. But this unfortunately creates a bitter and vicious cycle. The more power the applicants give away, the more powerful the firms become. The more powerful they become, they get all the options and the right to choose – which in turn gives more power to the employer.

This is exactly where you need to realize it is a power play. You need to show to the interviewer that you are a qualified candidate (we are assuming that you are fit for the job). You also need to evaluate the manners of the interviewer. From the way the interview is conducted, you can actually get a lot of clues about the work environment.

TO BE CONTINUED…

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Filed Under: Dreams and Careers Tagged With: business interviews, organizationa? culture, potential employers, power play, work environment

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